For the past couple of years, I’ve been working with California Governor Gavin Newsom and his First Partner, Jennifer Siebel Newsom, on a website called “Engaged California.” Initially, we wanted to consult young people regarding social media use because it was a classic case of “something about them, without them”—rules were being made without their input. We wanted to consult them and their parents to set boundaries or “red lines” around social media use.