If they have a lot of grievances and gripes, chances are they’re actually suffering somehow from existing policy and just didn’t have the right words for it, or they’re systemically ignored by the political apparatus. So they just use gender or whatever as a way to get my attention. But I make sure that I only respond to the constructive part. For the other parts that are not constructive, I just receive them like poetry. Like, “Oh, language can be used this way. It’s very interesting.”