Yes, exactly. Another practice is not to jump immediately to judgment. In Chinese, we have a term “傾聽” (qīng tīng)—to tilt yourself fully in the direction of the speaker so you can see the world from their perspective. You suspend judgment for a time, then evaluate after hearing them out. If you judge too soon, you won’t fully absorb their perspective. It’s akin to reading a book: if you’re criticizing every other paragraph, you won’t immerse in the writer’s worldview.